Is there a website for other married people to exchange feelings and be friends to vent about spouse.?

I have been with my husband for 14 years. In the first several years things were great. After he turned 40 he went through male menopause. I'm not kidding, his doctor told him this. So the doctor put him on paxell because he snapped at everyone. Well the medicine worked and he was back to his old self, so it was great for about a year. Now he has become a drunk. He has allways drank, but he will get drunk 3 out of 4 days. He doesn't care anymore about what I think or if I'm happy. I have tried to talk to him but it don't work. It really hurts me because our problems seem to start when I couldn't have with him all the time because of a medical problem. I don't understand why people can't love each other for more then that. He won't quit drinking or go to a counselor. I would leave but I have a 6 year old and I'm afraid that if he gets visitation, he will drink and drive with him when he got him, and not watch him very well. I ONLY stay because of this. I can certainly see why wemon become s. This is my second long relationship and I will never get tied down again. The first one was a young thing, but this one is ridiculous, because he was a good person and didn't change until years down the road. Does anyone know a website where I can talk to real people in the same situation.