I am unhappy in married life, Can't I get one Friend who is an real emotional Lady (married or unmarried)?

I am one male,37, Indian, due to so many reasons of lack of similarity I think I am unsatisfied here. My wife is not but she is not one of those ladies who could be my dream. Actually my wife is not at all romantic. She is too practical, but my ex lover was really a girl of high intellect. She was te real match for life. But to religion difference her parents leave her to an unwanted family.Although, she is now out of my reach, but I don't know that how can I adjust with my present wife, who is really a too much ordinary and village Girl? Please help me. Please help me. Please help me. Please help me.